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The Lovers - by Hunter & Therese Mabon We are here to inspire you and your partner in your relationship. We have been a couple since the early 90’s and here we share some of our wisdoms, insights, success and setbacks. We share tips, suggestions and some jewels from our own and others experiences over the years. We hope that we can help improve your relationship, starting today. ♥️♥️ Vi är här för att inspirera dig och din partner i er relation. Sedan -93 har vi varit ett par och här delar vi med oss av våra egna klokheter, insikter, medgångar och motgångar, samt tipsar er om guldskatter som vi funnit längs årens gång. Vi hoppas få inspirera dig och din partner redan idag. ♥️♥️
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Monday Feb 28, 2022
S6E2 - What do people fantasize about?
Monday Feb 28, 2022
Monday Feb 28, 2022
The seven most common sex fantasies.
What differences are there between women and men in fantasies?
Am I normal or do I have unusual sex fantasies?
We aim to give you some answers to the questions we think you might have around sex fantasies - we start with these plus a few others.
Monday Feb 28, 2022
S6E1 - Why share your sex fantasies?
Monday Feb 28, 2022
Monday Feb 28, 2022
In this first episode of season 6 we define what a sex fantasy is according to us. We also share perspectives of why you should share your sex fantasies with your partner.
Listen with your partner/s and send us some love letters if you like what we do! Show that you listen to this and feel free to tag us on Instagram as @thelove.rs
Feel free to subscribe to our podcast on Spotify, Podbean or on your preferred app.
Thursday Dec 09, 2021
Snippets trailer - In English
Thursday Dec 09, 2021
Thursday Dec 09, 2021
Welcome to our Podcast Snippets - The Lovers Podcast!
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Friday Nov 19, 2021
S5E9 - Having a beer at the gym
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Friday Nov 19, 2021
What's this all about?
In this last episode of the season About Communication we talk about how to set yourself up for success of creating the strong bond of love and affection in your relationship.
Are you always in a rush or stressed when you start important conversations with your partner? Perhaps you have had a drink or two? Is that really he best environment for a good talk?
How do you and others speak about your partners outside of the home? Can you be a role model and keep the positive spin going?
Maybe you need a reminder of the tool: Stress reducing Conversations? Listen again to episode 3.
If you like what you just heard - please follow us and share the episodes with others. Be a role model you too - inspirer others to level up in their relationship!
Friday Nov 19, 2021
S5E8 - Inner communication
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Sometimes we are our own worst enemies using harsh inner communication.
We share some tricks how to change your bad thoughts into positive. We also remind you to not lose sight of the end goal in mind. Communicate to build a strong love bond and not break it.
Don't let assumptions and societal pressure dictate how you feel about yourself.
Learn how to read your partners body language and facial expressions. This is where the signals of a mean inner communication first is seen.
Be kind to yourself!
Friday Nov 19, 2021
S5E7 - Communication after a fight
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Friday Nov 19, 2021
What are the best ways to communicate after a fight? How soon can you start? Are apologies always needed?
We talk about the tools available and how successful couples repair fast and often even during the conflict
How do you handle your feelings during and after a fight? Why do you react so much to some trivial matters? Can there be something else hiding behind your reaction?
Reminder:
You should always try to avoid the 4 Horsemen, also in your post fight talks and don't try to solve all the problems.
Friday Nov 19, 2021
S5E6 - Pleasant conversations
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Friday Nov 19, 2021
What is a pleasant conversation? How often do you have them? How often do you take the time to arrange them? Listen to us talk and reflect upon the importance of having pleasant conversations.
We talk about why it is important to have a positive narrative in your life and show fondness and admiration for your partner.
Communicating about good things can be very beneficial. If you find it hard there are many free tools to help you on your way. There are many card decks and apps with many topics to help you along.
Examples for you:
X-confessions App
Card decks
The Lovers App
Go on, enjoy your pleasant conversations!
Friday Nov 19, 2021
S5E5 - Speak of what you want
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Friday Nov 19, 2021
This may sound obvious but it isn't that simple. Knowing what you want and telling it to your partner can be very difficult.
How do you find out what you want if you are unsure?
How do you tell your partner something that you think might hurt them?
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Friday Nov 19, 2021
S5E4 - Otherness
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Friday Nov 19, 2021
One of the biggest challenges in a romantic relationship is that everyone is different. Thankfully! These differences are part of what makes you and your partner grow together.
But why can it be so hard?
Most relationships start with both partners trying to hide their otherness to try attract the other one. Slowly but surely the things that you have been hiding will be revealed.
Friday Nov 19, 2021
S5E3 - Stress reducing conversations
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Friday Nov 19, 2021
What is a stress reducing conversation?
How is it done and what does it help us with?
The purpose of this process is to assist couples in the management of daily external stress, stress that comes from OUTSIDE the relationship, like job stress. If you can handle this together it may help reduce stress WITHIN the relationship too.
The motto, "Understanding First, then Advice", means that emotional connection should be honoured, before moving to problem-solving. Empathy with emotions and problem solving are like two pieces of
a jigsaw puzzle: they fit together, and each is invaluable.
Links to learn more about this tool; Stressreducing Conversations.